Or maybe you are just too busy with work or school.Just connect with people around you who are looking for a quick hookup.), you can start looking for another job, or you can talk to your boss and/or someone at work who can help you.

Since you might have been working non-stop in the last few days everything else has not got done and gone on hold, like doing the washing up, cleaning your home, etc.

Certainly lunchtimes take on a whole new meaning and work becomes for a time a delight not a chore. When relationships begin to go wrong you begin by spending an inordinate amount of time questioning yourself, the situation, the other party, your sanity and everything about you. Which means - you are not thinking about the paper work on your desk.

The problem is, what happens when things begin slowly to fall apart. You are able to concentrate even through a category 5 tornado and so you would never be affected but affairs of the heart. Distraction means loss of performance, means loss of control, means possible loss of career. Well maybe yes, if you hate your job and feel you have no career and all your bills are paid then go for it.

Little by little, the person rapidly exiting your life becomes not a delightful interlude but a major distraction in the office, someone to focus not kind thoughts but someone you can harbor doubts about.

Your best friend is told the details and soon everyone knows.